Can it be helped that the wound of losing that person hurts you greatly? Are tears streaming from the wound instead of blood? This unrelenting pain is probably eating you away inside. The cry of pain has probably become a wail.
As long as you are you, you will have this pain in your heart. However, and this is important, in time you can get accustomed to this pain. This pain is proof that you are you. This pain is proof that you loved that person. Accept the pain as pain, and live through it.
Of course, you need not follow after your loved one to prove the depth of your love. The proof is in your heart.
Cry, cry and cry... Tears are there to protect your heart. When tears finally run dry, your heart will be calm and quiet. Feeling clear inside, You will be left with the transpicuous sense of being blessed with life. So, look for beautiful things around you, And you will find a hope, a hope to move on.
Although fate is a cruel thing, There is much love and beauty still left in this world - It is not such a bad place to live after all. When your eyes are all dried up And you can cry no more, You are there face to face with life. That's when your senses are cleansed of all worldly filth. That's when you start seeing a whole new meaning in everything you encounter.
Look for beautiful things, And you will find something.
Sorrow and pain only affirm the depth of your love. Suffering and loss only affirm your devotion to life.
If you confront these emotions head on, your body and heart may become exhausted. At times, everything may become intolerable.
Are you now living helplessly dreaming your life away? Do you think you can no longer start your own life over?
That is not so. As long as you are yourself and you feel discontent in your life, you can start over. As long as you continue to judge yourself this way so highly in your heart, you are really the same as you were in the past.
At the end of the day, The sun will fade and everything becomes one big shadow. But the sun did not die, It has simply gone to the other side of the earth. There, the sun is shining and giving light and warmth upon every blessed soul. Your loved one, just like the sun, has simply become invisible to your eyes. There is a world which we cannot see.
